Hello to all the lovely bloggers of the world.
I don’t know if many of you know much about Eleanor and her relationship with our cats as I have not really mentioned it much. Eleanor absolutely loves our Diesel and Angel, and Dior when she was around. But until 2009 Eleanor had never had a pet cat, was never fond of them and never had or wanted much to do with them.
When I met Eleanor and we got together in 2009 I had been babbling on about getting a cat, specifically I wanted a black boy cat. One day Eleanor went to the town, came back with this tiny little black boy kitten, we named him Diesel and this is the boy on the blog to this day. Eleanor has always been more of a dog person than a cat. When we had Diesel only, before we had out little staffy Isaac, Eleanor didn’t really like Diesel much. He was a bit of a bugger in his early kitten days.
I remember one memory vividly about Diesel and his naughty behaviour. It was when Eleanor and I were together but we both had our own places. We kept it like that for just under a year, to make certain it would work out for us and to ensure we didn’t rush into our relationship. We were literally a stone throw away from each other but never spent a night apart, just had these two homes. We would spend a night at Eleanor’s, and a night at mine, and take turns. Diesel would of course come along with us and was never left alone on a night. He had a bed, toys, litter tray and bowls in both homes. On an evening when Eleanor and I would try to sleep at Eleanor’s home in particular, Diesel would run around going mad, he would stick his paws under the covers at the bottom of the bed and scratch Eleanor’s feet. There was many a time, Eleanor would wake up with a few chunks of flesh missing and some dried in blood at the bottom of the bed. It absolutely drove her crazy, and she really didn’t like him. I kept thinking to myself, I wish he would calm down because he is not making a very good impression lol. My opinion on it was that Diesel knew Eleanor didn’t really like him or cats for that matter and Diesel was doing it on purpose… Who will know!
Diesel did start to calm down as he got older. We eventually gave up Eleanor’s home and moved properly into mine, which is now ours. The older Diesel got literally week by week, the more placid, pleasant and better behaved he become. When Eleanor first moved into my-our home, she used to work from home, we had the staffy dog at the time. Eleanor instantly had a strange bond with Diesel that I couldn’t quite grasp, it literally happened overnight. It was weird. Ever since then, Eleanor’s whole perception on cats has changed, she obviously thinks our cats are the best, but actually loves all cats, which I never thought would be possible due to her not having the best start with Diesel.
It’s quite amazing how Diesel and Eleanor’s relationship has blossomed and how close they are now. Since then our staffy got rehomed as most of you already know, we gave a home to a lovely tabby kitten – Dior who sadly passed away last November 2011, and then gave a home to a stunning Ragdoll kitten – Angel, who is still with us and best friends with Diesel. Diesel has remained the same tame, gentle, calm, lovely natured cat that he became the day him and Eleanor sealed this amazing bond. Still to this day, despite what both Eleanor and Diesel have gone through the last 2 years or so, they are so close and have an unbelievable bond that could never be broken.
Eleanor now is a proud and out full cat convert. She loves all cats, especially our own. But she still has a special place in her heart for a dog when the time is right.
Do you have any stories of bonds with your kitties?
Hope you are all well and have a great day. Happy new year to everyone!
I came across an old video of Dior the other day; it’s the video of her doing her most favourite thing… suckling on her fluffy blanket.
As you all know Dior is sadly no longer with us, but while she was, she got a great deal of comfort from her fluffy blanket and her ‘Dior’ teddy. I’ve mentioned before about what she used to do with the blanket and teddy. She would paw at it, stepping on and off, purr really loudly and suckle on the arms of the teddy or a patch on the fluffy blanket. She loved it and was just like a proper baby. Our baby! I wanted everyone to see how cute she is when she is doing her comforting thing so I thought I would upload a video.
Here is a video of Dior in her suckling action.
Its a Pussy Cats Life would like to wish everyone a VERY happy, healthy and if possible wealthy New Year 2013.
Hope you have all had some lovely New Year celebrations and enjoy the rest of your day and the rest of your new year!
Lots of love and best of wishes
Kelly, Eleanor, Diesel, Angel and Rolo
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HAPPY NEW YEARS EVE TO ALL MY LOVELY BLOGGERS – the end of another year and I have to say this year has been eventful and very quick… As you get older the years seem to breeze over! Not sure whether that’s a good thing or not, but not a lot we an do about it. Today’s kitten month blog and the last of the months blogs and this years blogs is a general ‘every day’ kitten blog.
We at its a pussy cats life hope you have all enjoyed and found useful some of the kitten month blogs… Stay tuned for more blogs on out fury pals ‘next year’…. Loves!
Everything your kitten experiences in her early months has an effect on the rest of her life. So the more she can experience during this important time, the more open and trusting she’ll be as an adult cat.
Watch (and learn) with mother
A kitten’s first and most important teacher is her mother, who’ll teach her everything she needs to know to survive, from how to look after her coat and nails to all aspects of toilet training.
Early learning lasts a lifetime
By the time your kitten is 8 weeks old, her mother has taught her all she can and it’s time for you to take over. By nature, she is a natural hunter and dependent on herself for survival. So it’s up to you to satisfy her hunting instinct, guide her towards appropriate behaviour (using a scratching post, for example) and gain her confidence and love, so she comes to trust you as well as herself.
Living with you and your family
A kitten’s character will already be formed by the second to seventh week of her life. If there’s been intensive contact with human beings during this time, there’s a good chance she won’t be shy later on. So, if you want your kitten to be an open and active member of the family, it’s important to handle her, talk to her and stroke her while she’s still very young.
Every day objects
It’s a good thing to expose your kitten to as many normal things as possible -like being in the car, or the hoover – as early as you can, so she can get used to everyday life. The more you do this, the quicker she’ll realise there’s no danger and take life in her stride.
It’s a good idea to get your kitten to try a wide range of flavours and textures early, because if she learns to eat only one type of food, you may have difficulty varying her diet later on. Whiskas® Kitten Complete pouches and dry food come in lots of different flavours and will satisfy her taste buds, as well as her nutritional needs.
Morning guys, happy Sunday… nearly the end of another year! Today’s kitten month blog is all about kittens/cats and their sleeping habits… We all know too well that our furry friends are very lazy
We have spoken about cats and their sleeping habits before, I’ve mentioned about cats/kittens sleep anywhere from 15-18 hours a day. Why? Your kitten is sleeping for a very important reason. Meat is a rich source of energy so, in the wild, as a cat eats her kills; she is taking in important stores of energy. Sleeping after her meal allows her to conserve it – ready to use for the next hunt and the burst of energy. So she’s not being lazy!
In the wild, during the intense heat of the day, your kitten’s big cat cousins will be sleeping. They are most active at dawn and dusk. This is the time when their prey is also active, when their eyesight is at its sharpest and when they have the best chances at successful hunting. Your little one is remarkably similar in nature, so you might find she’s naturally active early in the morning or just before sunset – think about planning some playtime around her naturally active times.
Very young kittens can’t control their body temperature in the same way that adults can, so cuddling up to their mother and littermates helps maintain their body heat. This is why many young kittens – and older cats too – love nothing better than snuggling up on a lap.
Good morning to all my lovely bloggers. Today’s kitten month blog is about understanding your kitten and why your kitten behaves in certain ways. A lot of this people will already know but here’s the blog for everyone to have a read of.
Understanding why your kitten behaves like she does will help you make your home as cat-friendly as possible. By nature, she is a solitary hunter, responsible for her own survival and not dependent on a pack to get her out of trouble. And this explains certain things she does …
Running in and out
In the wild, big cats are always alert and on the look out for danger. At home, you might see your kitten running in and out of a room – she’s quickly assessing the situation and spotting possible dangers. In these situations make sure the doors are open so she doesn’t have a bump and or the cat flap if you have one.
In the wild, big cats use scratches, smells and sounds to mark their boundaries, sniff out rivals and establish their territory. Feline signals have to be reinforced regularly as they act as signposts to other cats.
At home, your kitten will do the same thing, so it’s up to you to make sure these natural behaviours can be expressed without causing too much damage! Scratching posts and old carpets are a great distraction from your furniture so encourage this behaviour on dedicated spots and posts and they will soon get used to this.
In the wild, cats will use vantage points to watch for intruders and predators, as well as spotting good hunting and resting places. At home, make sure there are a few spots where your little kitten can sit up high. For Diesel and Angel they love to sit on window sills and in our office we have some shelves behind some roller curtains from Ikea, they love this spot on top of the towels.
In the wild, big cats will use a number of favourite hiding places from where they can scope out their territory or retreat to when they need a rest, are frightened or even ill. At home, your kitten will probably find her own places to hide but she will love you all the more if you can provide her with some uncluttered high places.
Good Morning to all my bloggers, Hope you have had a lovely Christmas
Todays Kitten Month blog is about Empathising with your kitten, this brings together things from other blogs and is just another ‘tip’ blog…
It’s time to get to know your little furry friend better. At heart, just like her big cat cousins, she is a natural hunter and intensely territorial. In the wild, female big cats live in matriarchal and highly co-operative groups held together with certain social behaviours. And the males are naturally independent, depending on themselves for survival.
Of course, things are different for your little kitten at home, but certain behaviours are very instinctual and will play a big part in her forming her own ‘family’ with you.
Next time you see your kitten grooming one of her litter or a friend, it’s not just about getting clean. Mutual grooming is about strengthening their social bonds. It’s also used to exchange important social information. You can help to mimic this behaviour by having regular grooming sessions with your kitten too. Diesel and Angel often clean one another, and give each other a little kiss on the nose, Its lovely to watch and they do enjoy it.
In the wild, cats use scent to leave complex time-lapse signals that help them secure territories, avoid conflict and strengthen social bonds. Rubbing against things may also establish social hierarchies. At home, your kitten will also use rubbing to mark you as part of her family, so return her affection with lots of strokes and plenty of love.
Cats will live in social groups as long as there are sufficient resources. You may find that if you introduce another cat into the house or if a new baby arrives, your cat may start displaying ‘problem behaviour’ such as spraying, urinating or, missing the litter tray. In fact, she’s just displaying natural behaviour that is all a response to a threat to her territory. Here are a few things you can do to make life less stressful for everyone:
- Provide separate food and water bowls, beds and litter trays for each cat in the house.
- Give her places where she can climb up to and expand her territory.
- Give her time to establish her territories – this may take longer than you think.
- Reassure her with plenty of love and affection.
Your kitten will quickly ‘learn’ the routine of your house and know when to expect regular events like the time a house wakes up and goes to bed, returning from work, mealtimes and how you relax afterwards. Keeping to these habits and routines and allowing your kitten to be a part of them will help her become a sociable and confident member of your family. The biggest routine in our household is ‘feeding time’ – 6am every morning without fail, Diesel will cry for his food, rub himself against us and be a general nuisance until we feed him! But we wouldnt change him or his ways! Angel tends to get under our feet and just put her bum in the air with her tail and let you know she is hungry!